Increase your stamina, flexibility and strength, and exercise the va-va-voom back into your sex life!


The more you exercise, the more you want to – and the same goes for sex! Get into the habit with these 10 exercises from British Military Fitness

1. Squats

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Squats are a great exercise to tone the legs and bottom, as well as allowing the blood to flow around the body. Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart and slowly lower your bottom as far as you can (the lower you go, the more this works!) and then lift yourself back up to the standing position. Make sure your heels stay on the floor and your back is straight to prevent any injuries. Repeat 20 times.

2. Kegels

Kegels are pelvic-floor-strengthening exercises for women. They can be done anywhere – sitting, standing or lying down – and involve contracting and relaxing the pelvic-floor muscles. To tighten these muscles, contract for five seconds and then relax. If you can, try to repeat this for around 5 min.

3. Tricep dips

Strong arms are key during sex! To do this exercise, sit with the back of your hands facing forward, resting against the edge of a chair or another flat surface. Place your feet shoulder-width apart and bend your knees to a 90-degree angle and push your bottom forward off the chair. Lower yourself down to the floor and lift yourself back up. Be sure your spine stays straight during the exercise to prevent injury. Repeat 20 times.

4. Plank

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The plank exercise works several of the muscles that are used in the bedroom. Lie face down with your hands on the floor, then lift your body up, with your hands directly underneath your shoulders where your arms will act as a support. Your body should be in a relatively straight line so make sure your hips aren’t too pushed out or sagging in. Engage the abs, squeeze the inner thighs and bottom cheeks together and press your heels back so your feet are flexed. Hold the position for 20 sec. Repeat 10 times.

5. Cardiovascular

Cardiovascular exercise is great for improving stamina as well as building up the muscles in the legs. This could include a wide range of exercises that raise your heart rate, such as running, cycling or speed walking. The more you do, the stronger you’ll get!

6. Bicup curls

Bicep curls also strengthen your arm muscles and can undoubtedly help with sexual performance. Some studies have shown that lifting weights causes an increase in testosterone, which can translate to a healthy increase in sex drive for both men and women. For this exercise you need two hand weights. Hold one weight in each hand, with your arms flat to your side, palms forward. Lift your arms so they are at a 90-degree angle and then lower your arms back down. Repeat 20 times.

7. Lunges

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Step forward so your legs are approximately 90cm apart, with your knees slightly bent. Push your hips forward and hold this for around 30 sec when you should be able to feel the stretch and muscle burn. Then repeat with the other leg.

8. Pelvic tilt pulses

Lie with your back flat on the floor with your knees bent, your legs shoulder-width apart and your hands and feet on the floor. Tighten your abs and bend your pelvis up slightly, pushing through your heels. Slightly pulse your pelvis up and down 20 times and then slowly lower yourself to the floor. Repeat three times.

9. Crosover stretch

This exercise is fantastic for improving flexibility as well as strength. Lie on your back with your knees bent and then bring your right knee to your chest. Grab the outside of the right knee with your left hand and pull it towards your left shoulder, holding for 30 sec. Repeat with other leg.

10. Snake stretch

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This exercise is great to stretch out the hips as well as elongate the back and improve flexibility. Lie on your front on the floor with your hands on the floor, facing forwards, and then push yourself up with your arms, arching the back and holding for 20 secs.


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